In the first post (Ancient Love) on this topic I described the impact of meeting your Ancient Love and what it can do to you. The joy of knowing that this other person is out there, is as said, very high impact and seen from the perspective of romantic love, there is nothing like it.
What many either don’t know or tend to overlook, is that it does not necessarily have to play out in Real Life 3D. That is because, as oddly as it may sound: the safety in knowing, even the love that generates ‘just’ from knowing, is enough to fulfill you, make a heart in turmoil rest and put an anxious mind at ease.
That can sound like a contradiction but it is not, since both your mind and heart are even in a greater turmoil now, since you obviously would like to also be physically near your Ancient Love and have that person resting by your side.
The quality that makes it non-contradictive is solely spiritual; it is metaphysical and it is like: “Well, I have come all this way and there he or she is – time will tell.” It´s a spiritual safety and you are highly connected already in your ‘other bodies’ such as the emotional, astral and the etheric.
Some Ancient Lovers rush into each other’s arms, abandon everything as goes for the life they have, because the pull is so strong. Nothing wrong with that – but it can go wrong, since the Alignment hasn’t been architected yet. And this is where the ‘Hollywood New Age’ version becomes unreal.
The alignment I am addressing is: The merging of life experiences and the merging of values of the Soul as in: We have suffered a lot; we have been through pain on the romantic scale and our goings about on the thin ice of modern life. And you do not want to throw those experiences overboard since soul core values don’t come for free. They often come through suffering.
So what now? Negotiate, would be my answer and do not bin your hard earned experiences blindly.
One thing helps here, and that is the Spiritual Maturity in both of you. I don’t think we get these wonders served on a platter if we are not ready for them on a spiritual note. The meeting with your Ancient Love is all a feel but it also leaves you in a choice – will, should, can I let this play out in Real Life? It is a Yes, if the values are shared and they often will be.
Let me stray to Romantic Relationships. There are, for every love affair, certain deal breakers, either based on moral standards or ethics. The classic one is to draw a line on infidelity. So if your love does that, it would mean that you will depart the relationship, faster than your partner can count to ten.
It´s a value you have that cannot be tampered with and you won’t bow down, or go into the big discussion with your partner. The relationship just went from warm to below zero. Again it is your value and what others think of that value shouldn’t be your concern. For you: It is simply not up for debate.
Another relationship deal breaker could be: Do not ever take your partner down in front of others and make him or her feel as a lesser being – being dragged into your little drama of having an audience for your frustrations with that partner. I mean: If your partner is that low in your esteem, why are you in that relationship in the first place?
Lying, is also on top of most people’s relationship deal breaker list and of course abuse on any level.
The Ancient Lovers come out of this reality and have their wounds, have their experiences, have their hurt and by God you know that the Ancient Beloved can heal those experiences: IF, they share the values that are the source of the hurt. If she or he does not, the hurt will continue, now from the Ancient Love, and it is very important to stress: It will break you. It will fracture your soul into a split of: Why did I sell out; I should have waited or I (we) should have outlined these deal breakers before I took the action of moving in with him or her.
I am aware that this sounds very ‘mind’ or intellectual, it is not. The Gold is this:
“I know myself – I am ready on all levels to love this person silly – but I also have to protect myself in a way that I do not follow blindly – lose myself on soulful core issues, because: if I both lose myself and my Ancient Love – I will break, like I never have broken before.”
It is not fear based. It is not the intellect. What it is, is: Conscious surrender.
And you crave so much to kiss those lips, to look into those eyes, to merge physically, to hear her giggle, to smell her hair – and at the same time, still be self empowered, since the meeting is also due to spiritual maturity of that self improvement, which you did not get for free, but often, as said, through a line of relationships that went down the drain due to differences between you on the relationship deal breaking battlefield.
So now you met your Ancient Love, you are both in surrender and self-preservation mode and that is a good thing. The fairytales of devouring passion, in a blink of an eye surrender, rarely are genuine. It can be done, but in my experience and from working with others in this Ancient Love Vortex, it is rarely so.
The negotiation has to be there. Some take it before they merge and plan a life together, and some take it after some time into this kind of relationship, but that is a more troublesome path, since in order to keep it going and not to split up, which will devastate the both of you, it seems like a good strategy because, fellow pilgrim:
You do not want to sell your soul in order to keep the connection. And this is obviously also where these relationships will crash or you will.
So negotiate; and the wonder of that negotiation is that you both find out you have shared values on the core issues of: Relationship Deal breakers. When it is so: You have come down a long, long road, traveled through life after life and this longing, this deep spiritual, practical and metaphysical longing has found its resting place. It has all come home. You are blessed. You are resting in the arms of eternity and infinite love.
You see the concept of ‘God’ in your beloved. You see the gratitude, you see why love is the strongest force, you see the purpose of your existence and you see the experiences that you had as the road to where you are now. Both resting and empowering in a love that eludes everything mundane and is purely celestial, and that is why we have to use words that we normally tie into the celestial, whatever that means to you, to describe the feel of it. And the anatomy of that feel is: Celestial Love.
While all this is playing out there is a helper to guide you. The name of that helper is: Synchronicity. Celestial Loves often meet via the forces of synchronicity. If synchronicity doesn’t show up at your doorstep, it is actually a sign of: You might be very fascinated by this person, she/he might be someone you knew in a past life. I described that in the first post.
There will still be synchronicity of course that points you to a beloved. Lovers are often amused by these. The synchronicity that you will experience with an Ancient Love will come at warp speed and in abundance, until you both: ‘Get it’. You will feel like a pawn being played by the big love ‘conspiracy’ in the heavens that gently, gently, sends you into the arms of your beloved.
That is also a quality that you have to surrender to: The Forces of the Uni, telling you: You are ready now, maybe you do not think that you are, maybe you didn’t think that this would ever happen to you and you may be in a low-key situation on the inside of yourself, and now it’s a question of belief or disbelief, often depending of your physiological state of mind. But that’s not all that synchronicity does.
If you have doubts whether it really is an Ancient Love that you just met online, at a café, at a seminar, listen for the sync, listen to the winds of ‘random freaky coincidences’ in the bigger picture or in the smallest of details, and most of all listen to the synchronicity and mergings in the higher realms of reality as in the etheric.
I try to avoid saying 4D or 5D, but yes it is there obviously. What we need to understand, as goes for creating a life together, is that we have to embed 3D experiences, as I started out with, since an Ancient Love relationship can be torn apart if the 3D reality isn’t in sync. Hence: Deal breakers, and the practical needs we have in life. Of course you can go in hippie mode on some Caribbean beach and live off low hanging fruits, but will that be enough?
Ancient Love is such a strong force that it will empower you on all levels. If you live off being creative, it will strengthen that. If you’re a good schoolteacher, for example, it will empower that into an awesome schoolteacher, since it will send all your qualities into a higher frequency. Practical life doesn’t stop because you are in an Ancient Love relationship. It might come to a halt obviously, because of the pull and the deep intimacy and the feel of: This is all I need, and you bunker in.
It is ‘all you need’, but you also need to pay the rent eventually, and pursue what you see as your purpose, and again: this is where many get it wrong and actually take their life down on account of these emotions, which aren’t emotions anymore in a mundane sense of the word, but a celestial feel.
Practical Life is, as everything in you and around you, empowered and in a higher state than you have ever known. It is purpose driven fuel for the pilgrim walking this planet and it will be so for the both of you.
Having said that, if you enter the realm of Celestial Love unclear about your purpose on this planet, you will find it. Synchronicity will show you and let that be your guide into your mundane and spiritual heart which is now bleeding in a state of fragility and strength like never seen, never felt, never experienced before.
The (re)Birth of a Celestial Couple surrendering in a state of humbleness towards their beloved.
Humbleness and Empowerment are not contradictive feels anymore.
Neither is a salty tear of joy a sign of sadness.
Neither is a brushstroke of melancholy on an unearthly painting a sign of longing anymore.
You found your Celestial Beloved and all that seemed contradictive was a sign of us not knowing the State of Love that now is found or is patiently waiting for us to experience it.
Close to the One, Close to the One.
© 2018 Soren Dreier