We live in a defining Hour of The System of Fear. No doubt that it knows this and it’s trying to hurt as many as possible in its death struggle. The collective abuse scale is so blatant it basically targets all, from infants to the elderly.
Control is the key word. If the system is afraid of us: It will try to control us.
Which made me think of love. Romantic love.
Many try to control their partner, even spying on them. Why? They are afraid of that Love might leave them: If you have that control issue – its maybe time to let it go and realize: That it is not love your feeling – It is fear.
We can do a lot of brave things, the bravest thing we can do however, is to fall in love.
Which would leave us pretty vulnerable. And it does. But there’s a way of fighting this “sitting duck“ syndrome and returning it to the core of the conditioning itself.
In order to transcend this vulnerability, it might be an idea to look at our own designs in that department, our own patterns so to speak, and give them a tune-up.
I strongly believe that we cannot beat the external conditioning without beating the internal conditioning we all have. If you think you have none, you don’t need to read any further: You are flawless.
I have touched upon Transcending the Love Conditioning in The Matrix. So let’s talk about love since we all agree that love is what will bring The System of Fear down. That sneaked it way into romantic love and for so many that is also a Construct Of Fear.
But my point being: If we stick to the old matrix conception of “love”, it will take us nowhere:
The ‘guard your heart’ issues:
Why would anyone want to guard their heart and hand this protected heart over to anyone? It doesn’t make any sense, but only in The Matrix divide and conquer scheme of things. Love is beyond control. Love cannot align to to that.
The ‘fearing a breakup’ issue?
It’s like fearing death and not living your life fully. We are here: Here and Now, and as awakening kicks in, the thought of living a raw and genuine life everyday becomes evermore vital and the only road worth traveling.
The outpost of fear in love is:
Vulnerability. That goes for “love the love”, without that being a stinky new age cliché, or romantic love: engaging and disengaging it. I actually know folks who won’t engage in love because they conceive themselves to be: Too vulnerable. Sad.
The most vulnerable position we can put ourselves in is: romantic love. We have to go in honest, open and lay our complete trust at the mercy of our partner, or it seems that way. It is the most naked situation we ever will find our true self in, if it’s in the raw, a force of nature and not the misconceptions of love that the guarded heart conditioning will give us.
“But I had so many downfalls in love – I can’t trust anyone”.
– You don’t have to trust anyone, you have to trust yourself and go consciously vulnerable.
There’s a difference here that is very much worth taking in, both as goes for The Matrix and for your personal life. Love is a state of mind and not petty emotions. But the state of mind is in fact an emotion – it just has staying power.
It also goes for vulnerability.
It’s an emotion and for some a state of mind. That’s where the “sitting duck” kicks in. Whether it’s The System or a potential lover. You become vulnerable because you bought in on the belief system that you should guard your heart.
Don’t. Open it. And tap into the field of being: Consciously vulnerable.
Awake, if you like that better, but it is an Awake, that transcends the intellect and becomes a feel without any kind of cognitive agony.
Life has many hidden layers that will only reveal themselves to the open hearted.
You are the only one responsible for your emotions. If you think that The Matrix or another person can hurt them, you are mistaken because: Not a single soul on this planet can provide you with any emotion. They cannot give them to you and they cannot take them away from you.
The “only” thing The System and a lover can do is they can raise emotions in you that you already have.
That’s one of the reasons why psychopaths can’t be treated by therapy. You cannot raise a single emotion in them, you cannot give them empathy, and since they don’t have it: abandon project. It serves no purpose. It´s a no-go.
And that’s why you can’t engage The Matrix and tell it to behave. They are on another planet. The cold shit one. That could be one argument for understanding why The Matrix stirs up so much vulnerability Kung Fu in the heart people of this planet. You cannot address the nasty entity on a heart level, but you sure can threaten it by your mere existence.
I see, as more and more Heart People are coming out of their life in the bushes, and really getting that. They become so empowered. So very empowered. But not by sneaking around their protectiveness of their own heart, which they found to be a matrix construct, but by becoming: Consciously vulnerable.
You go into a relationship in a consciously vulnerable state of mind and you partner does too: Two surrendering loving souls merging.
By going into that, you are about to divorce The Matrix, aren’t you? No sense anymore in grieving about break ups, divorces, It is your own reflection you’re looking at, not the other person’s psychology. Stop the blame game and grow up and acknowledge: It’s all your emotions you’re complaining about, and complaints are like prayers, be careful what you wish for in that department.
Take responsibility for your emotions, transform them into: States of Mind and you are untouchable. As long as we don’t realize that, we will reduce ourselves to emotional lab rats, whether it’s in our private lives or in the designs of The Matrix.
Be vulnerable, but know that you are.
That is the empowerment in this field. And here we thought that its our weakness…
Vulnerability is an expression of warrior hood and braveness.
If it is a metaphysical state of mind.
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